Relationsip between wife and husband

I always used to think how the love will arise between a wife and husband suddenly in arranged marriages and here is my personal experience.

One day my mother called me and told that guy said ok for the proposal and what about you when i am in the middle of the meeting. Without any sec thought i told ok because by that time i really got a total negative impression on relationships and thought any one is ok . Here i used to remember one saying in telugu "ee rayi ayithe emi pannu viragottukovataniki"

Just started to go home as usual on weekend and my brother called me that the guy will call u and he put the phone my saying 'Enjoy Madi " What to enjoy and worst part is i dont know even his name also..

He started talking bla bla bla and here seriously i am not interested but still listening to his words just for the sake of parents. .Suddenly from his words came to know that the next day is our engagement.. i too acted as i knew it by beating the front seat in the bus

Engagement finished ..Marriage finished ..Always he used to say me I Love u .. I used to tell him the words should come from the heart ..he used to give me a harsh look and left ..

One day we had situation where we need to live away from each other for job resposibilities. I donno deep in my heart somewhere still i am happy with the departure where i go out alone and enjoy myself..No need to tell anyone that i will be late and no cooking no responsibilities nothing..

To my surprise, i dint even spend an hour also happy by staying away from him and within no time i came to the place of his and started again the same journey. Now realized

What the love i had on him
What the love i had in doing those responsibilities
What the love i had in telling "I will be late dont wait for me"
What the love i had in telling " Will have lunch together"
What the love i had in "figthing with him and be as usual in the next hr "

The day he stopped telling Love you ..i used to love him .. No matter how many times we used to fight for a day but still i love him now.

This whole story will be the common saying but the experience and feelings are so great and touch deep in the heart.

Girls please realize before the guys leave if you have undergone the same experience, Dont make them to search their happiness in something else. Guys are more patient but once they loose their patience we are helpless.