Thursday, August 26, 2010

google search vs character

Always almost daily i used to think of one statement ' I want to do something but i don't know what to do'. I want handful of work daily and always i want to say that 24hrs are too less. But i dint get any answer of what to do and spend ed all the empty hours in the months of july and august. Now the august is also completing and sat in front of the system and typed the same statement which daily i used to remember in google search. For those who had typed this statement in the google
First think of whether you want
1. Only Work
2. Work with fame where no back step in that
3. Work with money
4. Donn know this also

First Category :
Only work

This category people can do any kind of work because they hate to be idle and for sure these kind of people if they add some flavors like hard work, sincere they can see the colors in life.

Second Category : Work with fame where no back step in that
These after entering the statement in the google search, they will search in the sites how many were success in this category and how many were failure. But they don't think whether it is possible for them or not. These can do hard work only after thinking " How will it be helpful to expose them?"


Third Category : Work with money
These people can add all the flavors and can go up to any extent if they get the bugs. Yes these days man will do anything for bugs.And after all every person is thinking of making the money. These people are good at least they are clear in what they want and what they can give. These after entering into the site they directly pay for the registration and start doing the work and check the payments for almost after completing each and every task assigned to them.


Fourth Category :
Donn know what they want

These days people are more in this category also after spending either more useless days or more unsatisfied days. These are helpless they need to come out and come to know what they need.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Relationsip between wife and husband

I always used to think how the love will arise between a wife and husband suddenly in arranged marriages and here is my personal experience.

One day my mother called me and told that guy said ok for the proposal and what about you when i am in the middle of the meeting. Without any sec thought i told ok because by that time i really got a total negative impression on relationships and thought any one is ok . Here i used to remember one saying in telugu "ee rayi ayithe emi pannu viragottukovataniki"

Just started to go home as usual on weekend and my brother called me that the guy will call u and he put the phone my saying 'Enjoy Madi " What to enjoy and worst part is i dont know even his name also..

He started talking bla bla bla and here seriously i am not interested but still listening to his words just for the sake of parents. .Suddenly from his words came to know that the next day is our engagement.. i too acted as i knew it by beating the front seat in the bus

Engagement finished ..Marriage finished ..Always he used to say me I Love u .. I used to tell him the words should come from the heart ..he used to give me a harsh look and left ..

One day we had situation where we need to live away from each other for job resposibilities. I donno deep in my heart somewhere still i am happy with the departure where i go out alone and enjoy myself..No need to tell anyone that i will be late and no cooking no responsibilities nothing..

To my surprise, i dint even spend an hour also happy by staying away from him and within no time i came to the place of his and started again the same journey. Now realized

What the love i had on him
What the love i had in doing those responsibilities
What the love i had in telling "I will be late dont wait for me"
What the love i had in telling " Will have lunch together"
What the love i had in "figthing with him and be as usual in the next hr "

The day he stopped telling Love you ..i used to love him .. No matter how many times we used to fight for a day but still i love him now.

This whole story will be the common saying but the experience and feelings are so great and touch deep in the heart.

Girls please realize before the guys leave if you have undergone the same experience, Dont make them to search their happiness in something else. Guys are more patient but once they loose their patience we are helpless.